Topic of that day

There was a topic two days back i think on yahoo..

Let me post my view about it here.

Divorces are getting increased.. but why?

Lot of changes happened in women for the past few years. They are well-educated and earning along with men. Obviously they feel that they want equal rights and no need to adjust with men like before. Earlier days women used to adjust with men just because they did not have any other way. She was not earning and if she cuts down the relationship with husband, her life would be gone. But now the case is different. She still has life after divorce. Thats the reason behind increase of these divorces.

But man is still the same. He still thinks that he is greater than a woman. Of course, he may be greater physically. That should act like a positive point from his side and he should constructively use his strength for the happiness of the family. Not to show his greatness over a woman. Its like showing your leg strength before a handicapped guy. Instead, we should try to help the guy. What I mean to say is men are physically stronger than women. It does not mean that, because of that they should dominate the world at every stage.

I dont say that women are 100% good. There are women who cheat and exploit men also. I should also mention that some of the men are too good and they understand the women very well.

The point here is that percentage differs. Majority of the men have to change and understand women and first think that she is equal to him and thats all. His life will be like a heaven. If he thinks that she should be under him and always try to show his male domination. Thats all. That is where the concept of divorce will enter.

In case of some of the women, they should not the misuse the freedom that they have got from their development. They should really utilize the freedom for the happiness of their family.

If there is no happiness between the couple, they would try to enter into extra-marital affairs which is totally not good. Individuals just want to show off (to themselves) that they are more compatible with someone else but not with the spouse. In case if a person wants to enter this kind of relationship with someone else they should better try to divorce the man/woman and only enter. If your leg has some problem try to give medicine to it. Dont try to attach some other leg.

I hope I have convered the key reasons. There are many more to cover..may be next time!!