What is maturity actually?
The definition of maturity goes like this. Maturity is something which makes use of your life (god's gift to you) in an effective manner.
Maturity ensures that you dont waste every moment of your life. It always checks that for everything that you do has some purpose and meaning.
If you have to develop maturity..first of all you have understand life. For example, some gift is given to you by someone. You dont know what that gift is and how it has to be utilized. First try to know about the purpose of the gift then try to achieve the PURPOSE (not anything else) of the gift. That is what is called maturity.
First learn the purpose of life. And try to achieve that purpose.
Thursday, December 18, 2008
Be a good citizen
First of all, everyone should try to be a good citizen. What do you mean by a good citizen? If I am not doing something illegal, doesnt it mean I am a good citizen?
Of course, yes. You are a good citizen if you are not doing something illegal. But your goodness does not stop there. There is still scope for you to be good.
For example, if some shopkeeper has given excess money to you. You know that he has given excess money. Try to return the back to him. It is also part of being a good citizen. Similarly, do not say lies to anyone. Unless and until it is very much required for you at that point of time. Similar kind of situations occur in our day to day life. Try to be good at every moment of life. That makes you positive from outside as well as inside.
Test yourself every moment. Whether you are right or wrong. And before testing yourself, your testcases should be proper. I heard some people saying it is wrong for you and it is right for me.
I literally laughed at that sentence..because good and bad are common for all. Thats why we have a common law for all the people. (Of course, different countries have different laws. That is different) The number of laws is not equivalent to the number of people. If that is the case everyone defines their own laws. Then the question arises? what is the need of law if you are defining it for yourself?
Good is good for all. Bad is bad for all. When you do a mistake instead of trying to escape from the mistake..try to accept and try to change yourself. Instead of doing more mistakes saying that this is right for me and wrong for others.
Of course, yes. You are a good citizen if you are not doing something illegal. But your goodness does not stop there. There is still scope for you to be good.
For example, if some shopkeeper has given excess money to you. You know that he has given excess money. Try to return the back to him. It is also part of being a good citizen. Similarly, do not say lies to anyone. Unless and until it is very much required for you at that point of time. Similar kind of situations occur in our day to day life. Try to be good at every moment of life. That makes you positive from outside as well as inside.
Test yourself every moment. Whether you are right or wrong. And before testing yourself, your testcases should be proper. I heard some people saying it is wrong for you and it is right for me.
I literally laughed at that sentence..because good and bad are common for all. Thats why we have a common law for all the people. (Of course, different countries have different laws. That is different) The number of laws is not equivalent to the number of people. If that is the case everyone defines their own laws. Then the question arises? what is the need of law if you are defining it for yourself?
Good is good for all. Bad is bad for all. When you do a mistake instead of trying to escape from the mistake..try to accept and try to change yourself. Instead of doing more mistakes saying that this is right for me and wrong for others.
Topic of that day
There was a topic two days back i think on yahoo..
Let me post my view about it here.
Divorces are getting increased.. but why?
Lot of changes happened in women for the past few years. They are well-educated and earning along with men. Obviously they feel that they want equal rights and no need to adjust with men like before. Earlier days women used to adjust with men just because they did not have any other way. She was not earning and if she cuts down the relationship with husband, her life would be gone. But now the case is different. She still has life after divorce. Thats the reason behind increase of these divorces.
But man is still the same. He still thinks that he is greater than a woman. Of course, he may be greater physically. That should act like a positive point from his side and he should constructively use his strength for the happiness of the family. Not to show his greatness over a woman. Its like showing your leg strength before a handicapped guy. Instead, we should try to help the guy. What I mean to say is men are physically stronger than women. It does not mean that, because of that they should dominate the world at every stage.
I dont say that women are 100% good. There are women who cheat and exploit men also. I should also mention that some of the men are too good and they understand the women very well.
The point here is that percentage differs. Majority of the men have to change and understand women and first think that she is equal to him and thats all. His life will be like a heaven. If he thinks that she should be under him and always try to show his male domination. Thats all. That is where the concept of divorce will enter.
In case of some of the women, they should not the misuse the freedom that they have got from their development. They should really utilize the freedom for the happiness of their family.
If there is no happiness between the couple, they would try to enter into extra-marital affairs which is totally not good. Individuals just want to show off (to themselves) that they are more compatible with someone else but not with the spouse. In case if a person wants to enter this kind of relationship with someone else they should better try to divorce the man/woman and only enter. If your leg has some problem try to give medicine to it. Dont try to attach some other leg.
I hope I have convered the key reasons. There are many more to cover..may be next time!!
Let me post my view about it here.
Divorces are getting increased.. but why?
Lot of changes happened in women for the past few years. They are well-educated and earning along with men. Obviously they feel that they want equal rights and no need to adjust with men like before. Earlier days women used to adjust with men just because they did not have any other way. She was not earning and if she cuts down the relationship with husband, her life would be gone. But now the case is different. She still has life after divorce. Thats the reason behind increase of these divorces.
But man is still the same. He still thinks that he is greater than a woman. Of course, he may be greater physically. That should act like a positive point from his side and he should constructively use his strength for the happiness of the family. Not to show his greatness over a woman. Its like showing your leg strength before a handicapped guy. Instead, we should try to help the guy. What I mean to say is men are physically stronger than women. It does not mean that, because of that they should dominate the world at every stage.
I dont say that women are 100% good. There are women who cheat and exploit men also. I should also mention that some of the men are too good and they understand the women very well.
The point here is that percentage differs. Majority of the men have to change and understand women and first think that she is equal to him and thats all. His life will be like a heaven. If he thinks that she should be under him and always try to show his male domination. Thats all. That is where the concept of divorce will enter.
In case of some of the women, they should not the misuse the freedom that they have got from their development. They should really utilize the freedom for the happiness of their family.
If there is no happiness between the couple, they would try to enter into extra-marital affairs which is totally not good. Individuals just want to show off (to themselves) that they are more compatible with someone else but not with the spouse. In case if a person wants to enter this kind of relationship with someone else they should better try to divorce the man/woman and only enter. If your leg has some problem try to give medicine to it. Dont try to attach some other leg.
I hope I have convered the key reasons. There are many more to cover..may be next time!!
What life teaches you?
Life is magical. By the time you learn everything from life, your life will come to an end. I believe that probably God has created life in such a way.
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